why’re straight men who wear floral clothes and shit celebrated so much for being male and presenting femininely as if feminine gay guys aren’t men?
like do people not realize gender-nonconforming gay men are non-conforming to masculinity? they are still men you know. them being gay doesn’t make their non-conformance to masculinity any less significant than a straight man doing it. if anything, its more significant because they have to deal with homophobic violence on top of that.